As someone who has quite a diverse personality, with endless ways of showing my creativity and things that pique my interest, it can sometimes be hard to know what to focus on. This feels like a battle I have with myself often and leads to me losing my way on occasion too. I have a … More Knowing What To Focus On
Whether it comes to fashion or how I make any life decisions or career choices, I always make sure I am not following the crowd. As someone obsessed with MBTI, my personality type is INFJ, this is a common personality trait that I bring to every area of my life. When you chose to stand … More Why Fit In When You Can Stand Out
One of my favourite blog posts from my blog before we had a revamp. Reading this back at 25 (with a few more lessons learnt), I love reading this post from younger me, and thought I would bring it back… A couple of weeks ago I turned 20 and I can’t really believe this is … More 20 Things I Learnt Before Turning 20
As someone who thrives on improving myself constantly in every area of my life and is driven to do the best I can for myself, there are certain things I did not expect to come across while on this journey. Working on yourself does take a lot of self-reflection and some heavy conversations with yourself … More The Truth About Getting Your Sh*t Together
Something that I’ve recently been thinking about is the pressure we put on ourselves. As someone obsessed with self-help, it’s important to look at if self-care and self-motivation is actually helping. I have always been someone who puts a lot of pressure on myself. Even from a young age, I was a perfectionist. If I … More Pressure
Yesterday, for my birthday, I booked the spa to celebrate and relax as I have recently been moving at a million miles an hour. With my new job, focusing more on my hobbies and spending more time being creative, I needed to chill out and the spa was a perfect idea. Since I have never … More Learning to Relax
Something that I deeply regret and ponder upon often is wishing I had started certain hobbies or habits earlier. I think we have all felt like that at some point, right? Whatever you decide to do to improve your life, career, or simply to enrich your life takes time. Some crafts take time to perfect … More Is It Ever Too Late?
So recently, I’ve started a new job working for a reasonably big fashion brand. I always struggle to describe my job to people but I basically reach out to influencers and make collaborations happen for the brand. For someone who spends a lot of time on influencers’ social pages, an observation I made was how … More My Personal Style Identity Crisis
So the last time I blogged or would have considered myself a blogger was around 4 years ago. After this ‘break’ from the world of blogging, I feel like the space has changed over the years. My question is, do people still blog? With the rise of more video-based platforms like YouTube and TikTok, I … More Blogging in 2022?
Nishi Selva 