I don’t think we talk enough about the people who quietly change the course of our lives.Not the people who intentionally set out to help you.I mean the people who probably don’t even remember the conversation. The ones who said something in passing. Encouraged you to take a chance. Gave you a piece of advice … More People Who Shaped My Career Without Ever Realising It
My graduation was a few years ago now, but I never liked my graduation dress, so obviously, I made the most of my brother’s graduation by wearing my dream graduation dress (it’s okay, my family are used to me making everything about me). I had people saying congratulations, which was awkward, but I did think … More Celabrating In Style: What To Wear For a Graduation
So something I was thinking about late last year was how much money I spend on clothes. As someone who is trying to avoid buying fast fashion as much as possible, I can say it has definitely been hard to find affordable clothing while keeping ethics in mind. I love building systems in my life … More How To Afford Your Dream Wardrobe
Anyone who knows me knows I’m not someone who jumps on trends. However, buttermilk yellow is one of my favourite colours to wear. The dress above was a dress I wore for my birthday back in January. Styled perfectly with my matching yellow nails and my acrylic marble brown clutch. Styling buttermilk is so easy! … More Buttermilk Yellow: The Soft Shade Taking Over Fashion This Season
Something most of us will go through at some point in our lives is losing friendships we thought would last a lifetime. As someone who has gone through this multiple times at different stages of my life, I wanted to share my thoughts in the hope that someone else might need to hear this. People … More Friendships Ending And Moving On
Today is my birthday, and it is only right that I share some things (big and small!) that I have learned in my 20’s. I want to share these with girls in their 20’s or those who aren’t here yet and want the tea, or women who have been there and done that to see … More 20 Things I Learned in My 20’s
It’s normal to get to the end of the year and feel like you need to prepare for the new year. Part of this is looking back at how far you have come this year: what you did well, the things you achieved, areas you could have improved, and the things you loved about yourself … More Reflecting on 2024
This year I feel like I explored my personal style a little more. I am always stuck between girly dressed up doll aesthetic and colourful baggy chill vibes look. This year, I decided I’m not going to choose and just do both! Here is a collection of my favourite outfits this year. Click on image … More My Outfits Wrapped 2024
Having a blog for 10+ years is a beautiful thing, with so many collections of your own thoughts. However, there have been times I’ve read something I wrote years ago and just cringed. I couldn’t help thinking, “I can’t believe someone has read that.” Over the years, I’ve read so many people’s work. As a creative working … More You’re Not Going To Be For Everyone
There is a version of ourselves in our heads that we wish we were. From the way we dress to the way we talk, the achievements we acquire to the friends we have. We all have an ‘ideal’ version of ourselves, and sometimes that version of ourselves feels so far away. Here are a few … More How To Become The Dream Version Of Yourself
Nishi Selva 