Nishi Selva

I find writing one of the most peaceful things to do when I need to get things off my chest. It is the perfect way to release whatever you have going on inside of you and put it out into the universe. 

It’s rare I do a post this personal and as open as I am, I do find I can be quite a private person too but I felt the need to write so that’s what I am going to do. 

Firstly, my blog has been doing really well recently with a particular post blowing up massively after I wrote it months ago. If you haven’t read my post on A Guide on Being an ‘It Girl’, apparently you are missing out because that’s all everyone wants to read on my blog. 

I think the post did well not only because it was more of a ‘How To’ guide but it also came so from the heart. Whenever I have doubts, the first thing I work on in my life is my confidence. Trying to heal whatever I am going through with confidence has quite literally made me feel invincible. Since you all seem to love the post on confidence the most, I will make sure to share a lot more of that too! 

Other life updates…nothing that crazy is happening at the moment, I feel like I’m once again in a transitional place in my life. I constantly feel like I am behind and I am constantly trying to tell myself that I am not at all! There is just so much I want to do with my life and sometimes it can get so overwhelming.

I know everyone goes through this so I need to stop pitting myself but I can’t help but feel I haven’t achieved everything I wanted to do by this point in my life, which is crazy to say cause I know there are a lot of people who would kill for my job, to have a lovely flat like this and a car that can get them from place to place. 

I do worry, will it ever be enough? 

On top of that, I feel like I have an overwhelming amount of commitments that maybe I shouldn’t have said yes to?? How do people say ‘No’ when they need to? This is a skill I am still working on but I feel like I have something on every day whether it be an appointment or seeing an old friend. 

It’s so easy to forget for the most part, you do have full control of your life. My mum literally sent me a video the other day where the guy was saying how we forget we are like businesses and we quite literally are the CEO of our lives. 

So as per, I am trying to work on my work-life balance. Sometimes I get it right, and sometimes I get it not so right. But I am trying, and that’s all I can do. 

Love Nishi x