Since being a young girl, I alway envisioned my life being fast paced and exciting at every corner and for the most part, it has been. My crazy party phase from 18-23 was a blur (but some insane memories and I really did find myself), a lot of flights no feeling type trips (even though … More Slowing Down
Anyone who knows me knows, I am a huge advocate for being single for as long as you can, and not wasting your time in your younger years stressing about being with someone. I go on about it in everyday conversations, the countless quotes I’ve posted on my Insta on being independent and even highlighting … More Young And Single
Lucky girl syndrome is this new phrase I keep seeing everywhere and I am here to tell you it is real. I have never found a phrase or the right words to describe this before but luck girl syndrome is the perfect way of describing when everything just works out because you believe in yourself. … More Lucky Girl Syndrome
A few weeks back, I was thinking about why we all are obsessed with being successful and what it actually means and when do you know when you have reached ‘success’? At the time, I was very stressed. I had a few major changes in my life and it felt like I was going backwards. … More You Don’t Have To Be Successful
As someone who has quite a diverse personality, with endless ways of showing my creativity and things that pique my interest, it can sometimes be hard to know what to focus on. This feels like a battle I have with myself often and leads to me losing my way on occasion too. I have a … More Knowing What To Focus On
Whether it comes to fashion or how I make any life decisions or career choices, I always make sure I am not following the crowd. As someone obsessed with MBTI, my personality type is INFJ, this is a common personality trait that I bring to every area of my life. When you chose to stand … More Why Fit In When You Can Stand Out
One of my favourite blog posts from my blog before we had a revamp. Reading this back at 25 (with a few more lessons learnt), I love reading this post from younger me, and thought I would bring it back… A couple of weeks ago I turned 20 and I can’t really believe this is … More 20 Things I Learnt Before Turning 20
As someone who thrives on improving myself constantly in every area of my life and is driven to do the best I can for myself, there are certain things I did not expect to come across while on this journey. Working on yourself does take a lot of self-reflection and some heavy conversations with yourself … More The Truth About Getting Your Sh*t Together
Something that I’ve recently been thinking about is the pressure we put on ourselves. As someone obsessed with self-help, it’s important to look at if self-care and self-motivation is actually helping. I have always been someone who puts a lot of pressure on myself. Even from a young age, I was a perfectionist. If I … More Pressure
Yesterday, for my birthday, I booked the spa to celebrate and relax as I have recently been moving at a million miles an hour. With my new job, focusing more on my hobbies and spending more time being creative, I needed to chill out and the spa was a perfect idea. Since I have never … More Learning to Relax
Nishi Selva 