Since being a young girl, I alway envisioned my life being fast paced and exciting at every corner and for the most part, it has been. My crazy party phase from 18-23 was a blur (but some insane memories and I really did find myself), a lot of flights no feeling type trips (even though … More Slowing Down
Anyone who knows me knows, I am a huge advocate for being single for as long as you can, and not wasting your time in your younger years stressing about being with someone. I go on about it in everyday conversations, the countless quotes I’ve posted on my Insta on being independent and even highlighting … More Young And Single
Lucky girl syndrome is this new phrase I keep seeing everywhere and I am here to tell you it is real. I have never found a phrase or the right words to describe this before but luck girl syndrome is the perfect way of describing when everything just works out because you believe in yourself. … More Lucky Girl Syndrome
A few weeks back, I was thinking about why we all are obsessed with being successful and what it actually means and when do you know when you have reached ‘success’? At the time, I was very stressed. I had a few major changes in my life and it felt like I was going backwards. … More You Don’t Have To Be Successful
As someone who has quite a diverse personality, with endless ways of showing my creativity and things that pique my interest, it can sometimes be hard to know what to focus on. This feels like a battle I have with myself often and leads to me losing my way on occasion too. I have a … More Knowing What To Focus On
One of my favourite blog posts from my blog before we had a revamp. Reading this back at 25 (with a few more lessons learnt), I love reading this post from younger me, and thought I would bring it back… A couple of weeks ago I turned 20 and I can’t really believe this is … More 20 Things I Learnt Before Turning 20
As someone who thrives on improving myself constantly in every area of my life and is driven to do the best I can for myself, there are certain things I did not expect to come across while on this journey. Working on yourself does take a lot of self-reflection and some heavy conversations with yourself … More The Truth About Getting Your Sh*t Together
Something that I’ve recently been thinking about is the pressure we put on ourselves. As someone obsessed with self-help, it’s important to look at if self-care and self-motivation is actually helping. I have always been someone who puts a lot of pressure on myself. Even from a young age, I was a perfectionist. If I … More Pressure
This is my dilemma with gym goers and as per usual no one in my life seems to really understand my controversial views on this topic probably because it’s so common and the No.1 reason people go to the gym is for this exact reason. I simply do not like the idea that we go … More Reasons To Stay Fit Other Than to Just Look It
Something that has constantly been on my mind recently is how much I have changed in recent years. It sounds silly cause I have been doing this whole self-development thing since I was around 14 and have been fully dedicated to it for the past few years. It would be worrying if I didn’t change. … More Not The Same Girl
Nishi Selva 