I don’t think we talk enough about the people who quietly change the course of our lives.Not the people who intentionally set out to help you.I mean the people who probably don’t even remember the conversation. The ones who said something in passing. Encouraged you to take a chance. Gave you a piece of advice … More People Who Shaped My Career Without Ever Realising It
Something most of us will go through at some point in our lives is losing friendships we thought would last a lifetime. As someone who has gone through this multiple times at different stages of my life, I wanted to share my thoughts in the hope that someone else might need to hear this. People … More Friendships Ending And Moving On
Today is my birthday, and it is only right that I share some things (big and small!) that I have learned in my 20’s. I want to share these with girls in their 20’s or those who aren’t here yet and want the tea, or women who have been there and done that to see … More 20 Things I Learned in My 20’s
It’s normal to get to the end of the year and feel like you need to prepare for the new year. Part of this is looking back at how far you have come this year: what you did well, the things you achieved, areas you could have improved, and the things you loved about yourself … More Reflecting on 2024
Having a blog for 10+ years is a beautiful thing, with so many collections of your own thoughts. However, there have been times I’ve read something I wrote years ago and just cringed. I couldn’t help thinking, “I can’t believe someone has read that.” Over the years, I’ve read so many people’s work. As a creative working … More You’re Not Going To Be For Everyone
I’ve had quite an insightful day today, and I thought it was important to share. I was having a very panicked day earlier, one of those days where I had a lot of thoughts running through my mind, and something just popped into my head out of nowhere… “What would you do if this was … More No More Excuses. We Are Getting It Together.
Anytime I write a post on confidence, it always seems to do well, which makes me think this is something a lot of people are looking for and don’t know where to start. Confidence is probably the most important skill you will ever learn in your life. It can open so many doors and help … More How To Be Confident
This is a blog post I have been wanting to write for a long time, but I have been scared to. Partly because I am terrified of someone reading it and thinking, “Who do you think you are?” or “Maybe don’t share so much of your life online.” The truth is, you don’t have to … More Dealing With Jealous People
I find writing one of the most peaceful things to do when I need to get things off my chest. It is the perfect way to release whatever you have going on inside of you and put it out into the universe. It’s rare I do a post this personal and as open as I … More Life Updates: Blog Love, Transitioning, Comitments.
Something I have been struggling with recently and have been going back and forth about is doing things for the sake of doing them. Hear me out, as I have gotten older, I get so much more caught up on what I will be getting back from investing in something rather than doing things for the sake of … More Passion Projects
Nishi Selva 