Something most of us will go through at some point in our lives is losing friendships we thought would last a lifetime. As someone who has gone through this multiple times at different stages of my life, I wanted to share my thoughts in the hope that someone else might need to hear this. People … More Friendships Ending And Moving On
Today is my birthday, and it is only right that I share some things (big and small!) that I have learned in my 20’s. I want to share these with girls in their 20’s or those who aren’t here yet and want the tea, or women who have been there and done that to see … More 20 Things I Learned in My 20’s
It’s normal to get to the end of the year and feel like you need to prepare for the new year. Part of this is looking back at how far you have come this year: what you did well, the things you achieved, areas you could have improved, and the things you loved about yourself … More Reflecting on 2024
Having a blog for 10+ years is a beautiful thing, with so many collections of your own thoughts. However, there have been times I’ve read something I wrote years ago and just cringed. I couldn’t help thinking, “I can’t believe someone has read that.” Over the years, I’ve read so many people’s work. As a creative working … More You’re Not Going To Be For Everyone
There is a version of ourselves in our heads that we wish we were. From the way we dress to the way we talk, the achievements we acquire to the friends we have. We all have an ‘ideal’ version of ourselves, and sometimes that version of ourselves feels so far away. Here are a few … More How To Become The Dream Version Of Yourself
I’ve had quite an insightful day today, and I thought it was important to share. I was having a very panicked day earlier, one of those days where I had a lot of thoughts running through my mind, and something just popped into my head out of nowhere… “What would you do if this was … More No More Excuses. We Are Getting It Together.
This is a blog post I have been wanting to write for a long time, but I have been scared to. Partly because I am terrified of someone reading it and thinking, “Who do you think you are?” or “Maybe don’t share so much of your life online.” The truth is, you don’t have to … More Dealing With Jealous People
I was on the phone to my mum earlier, and I was telling her about all the changes I’ve made in my life recently. I thought it might be interesting to share them on my blog for anyone who might be inspired by these changes and might feel like trying them if they think it … More New Healthy Habits
For years, the gym was a place I was in and out of without really knowing what I was doing, and I was so inconsistent! These past two years, I have finally found a ‘flow’ that works for me when it comes to my fitness. Here are a few tips I frequently share with friends … More How To Keep On Top Of The Gym
I find writing one of the most peaceful things to do when I need to get things off my chest. It is the perfect way to release whatever you have going on inside of you and put it out into the universe. It’s rare I do a post this personal and as open as I … More Life Updates: Blog Love, Transitioning, Comitments.
Nishi Selva 